Part Two
There are two basic ways to see growth: one as a product, the other as a process. People have generally viewed personal growth as an external result or product that can easily be identified and measured. The worker who gets a promotion, the student whose grades improve, the foreigner who learns a new language-all these are examples of people who have measurable results to show for their efforts.
By contrast, the process of personal growth is much more difficult to determine, since by definition it is a journey and not the specific signposts or landmarks along the way. The process is not the road itself, but rather the attitudes and feelings people have, their caution or courge, as they encounter new experiences and unexpected obstacles. In this process ,the journey never really ends; there are always new ways to experience the world, new ideas to try, new challenges to accept .
In order to grow, to travel new roads, people need to have a willingness to take risks, to confront the unknown, and to accept the possibility that they may "fail" at first. How we see our-selves as we try a new way of being is essential to our ability to grow. Do we perceive ourselves as quick and curious? If so, then we tend to take more chances and to be more open to unfamiliar experiences. Do we think we're shy and indecisive? Then our sense of timidity can cause us to hesitate, to move slowly, and not to take a step until we know the ground is safe. Do we think we're slow to adapt to change or that we' re not smart enough to cope with a new challenge? Then we are likely to take a more passive role or not try at all.
These feelings of insecurity and self-doubt are both unavoidable and necessary if we are to change and grow. If we do not confront and overcome these internal fears and doubts, if we protect ourselves too much, then we cease to grow. We become trapped inside a shell of our own making .
5 . A person is generally believed to achieve personal growth then__.
(A)he has given up his smoking habit
(B)he has made great efforts in his work
(C)he is keen on learnning anything new
(D)he has tried to determine where he is on his journey
6. In the author' s eyes, one who views personal growth as a process would__.
(A)succeed in climbing up the social ladder
(B)judge his ability to glow from his own achievements
(C)face difficulties and take up challenges
(D)aim high and reach his goal each time
7. When the author says "a new way of being" (line 3, para. 3)he is referring to__.
(A)a new approach to experiencing the world
(B)a new way of taking risks
(C)a new method of perceiving ourselves
(D)a new system of adaptation to change
8. For personal growth ,the author advocates all of the following except_.
(A)curiosity about more chances
(B)promptness in self-adaptation
(C)open-mindedness to new experiences
(D)avoidance of internal fears and doubts
Unit 2(1995)Part 2
重點(diǎn)詞匯:
external(外部的),反義詞為internal(內(nèi)部的)。
signpost ?(路標(biāo))←sign+post。
landmark (界標(biāo))←land+mark。
obstacle(障礙)即ob+st+acle,ob-前綴“阻礙”,st詞根=stand,-acle后綴表物,“站在那里阻礙的東西”→障礙。
難句解析:
① The workers who gets a promotion, the student whose grades improve, the foreigner who learns a new language — all these are examples of people who have measurable results to show for there efforts.
本句破折號(hào)前面是三個(gè)并列的名詞詞組,其核心詞是the workers,the student和the foreigner,它們后面都有一個(gè)定語(yǔ)從句,而破折號(hào)后面的部分是一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的主系表結(jié)構(gòu)。
注意破折號(hào)前面的只是一些例子,在看不懂的情況下可以跳過(guò),當(dāng)然如果能夠精確理解它們的意思對(duì)理解作者把成長(zhǎng)視為一種過(guò)程也有幫助。
② The process is not the road itself, but rather the attitudes and feelings people have, their caution or courage, as they encounter new experiences and unexpected obstacles.
本句主干結(jié)構(gòu)就是not... but,注意but后面的成分較復(fù)雜,有四個(gè)并列的成分attitudes,feelings,caution,courage,在它們的后面有一個(gè)時(shí)間狀語(yǔ)從句。
注意抓not... but結(jié)構(gòu)中but后面的部分,這里是閱讀的重點(diǎn)。
③ In this process, the journey never really ends; there are always new ways to experience the world, new ideas to try, new challenges to accept.
可以用分號(hào)把句子一分為二,后面一半的表語(yǔ)比較復(fù)雜,有三個(gè)new的東西:new ways,new ideas,new challenges。
在此句和此句的上下文中,字面意思的理解可能不成問(wèn)題,但考生應(yīng)該真正理解作者在這里把人生的成長(zhǎng)視為一種過(guò)程而不是一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的結(jié)果這一事實(shí)。
④ In order to grow, to travel new roads, people need to have a willingness to take risks, to confront the unknown, and to accept the possibility that they may "fail" at first.
本句開始的兩個(gè)不定式是目的狀語(yǔ),主句結(jié)構(gòu)是people need to have a willingness to do sth.,后面又是三個(gè)并列的不定式。
在讀到這一句時(shí)我們就應(yīng)該對(duì)此文作者的文風(fēng)有一個(gè)大致把握,本文的作者比較喜歡使用排比結(jié)構(gòu)來(lái)使其論述顯得更加強(qiáng)有力。
⑤ If we do not confront and overcome these internal fears and doubts, if we protect ourselves too much, then we cease to grow. We become trapped inside a shell of our own making.
第一個(gè)句子以兩個(gè)if引導(dǎo)的條件從句開始,核心在then的后面,后面的句子中注意become后面的過(guò)去分詞作表語(yǔ)。
開始也是排比,比較容易理解,后半句里有一個(gè)比喻,shell指的是“自我封閉”,大家理解起來(lái)也沒(méi)有什么問(wèn)題。
試題解析:
5.【正確答案】[A]
第一段指出,人們對(duì)成長(zhǎng)有兩種基本看法:有人將之視為結(jié)果(product),有人將之視為一個(gè)過(guò)程(process)。一般來(lái)講,人傾向于將個(gè)人的成長(zhǎng)(或發(fā)展)看作是一個(gè)易于識(shí)別和測(cè)量的外在的結(jié)果,如:工人晉職,學(xué)生成績(jī)(grades)好,學(xué)會(huì)一門外語(yǔ)。這都是他們做出努力(efforts)之后所取得的可衡量的結(jié)果。
[A]表達(dá)的內(nèi)容原文雖未提到,但我們可以做一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的類推。一旦形成習(xí)慣,戒煙是很不易的,是需要決心與毅力的,正像一個(gè)學(xué)生要取得好成績(jī)必須做出努力一樣。B意為:他對(duì)工作盡了巨大的心力。但是,這里卻未提到盡心盡力后帶來(lái)什么樣的結(jié)果,也許是徒勞無(wú)益呢?C意為:他熱衷于學(xué)習(xí)新東西。be keen on意為:熱衷于,想要。與[B]一樣,這里也未提及結(jié)果:他是否學(xué)會(huì)新東西?D意為:他想看看(或確立一下)自己在發(fā)展的道路(journey)上走到哪兒了。這更沒(méi)道理了。
6.【正確答案】 [C]
意為:面對(duì)困難,接受挑戰(zhàn)。在第二段,作者指出,將發(fā)展看作是一個(gè)過(guò)程的人關(guān)心的不是結(jié)果,他們更多地是注重人面對(duì)新的體驗(yàn)(experiences)與不期而至的障礙時(shí)所表現(xiàn)出的態(tài)度與感受:是謹(jǐn)慎還是表示出勇氣。發(fā)展永無(wú)止境,對(duì)外部世界的體驗(yàn)不止一種,總是有新的思路需要檢驗(yàn),新的挑戰(zhàn)(challenges)去接受。另請(qǐng)參閱第三段第一句。
A意為:成功地爬上了社會(huì)階梯(即:成功地進(jìn)入社會(huì)上層)。這是一個(gè)結(jié)果,而不是一個(gè)過(guò)程,因此,是不正確的,而且,原文并未提到這一點(diǎn)。B意為:從他自己的成就來(lái)判斷其發(fā)展(潛)力。這顯然是從結(jié)果的角度來(lái)看待人的發(fā)展。D意為:確立高的(發(fā)展)目標(biāo)(aim high),而且每次都實(shí)現(xiàn)自己的目標(biāo)。原文并未提及“目標(biāo)”的確立,而且該選擇項(xiàng)的后半部分(reach his goal each time)顯然又是在談結(jié)果。
7.【正確答案】[A]
在該句中,being在此意為:生存,存在,第三段第二句指出,當(dāng)我們用新的方式生存(或體驗(yàn)世界)時(shí),我們對(duì)自己的看法對(duì)我們能否發(fā)展至關(guān)重要。下文舉了幾個(gè)例子來(lái)闡述這一觀點(diǎn)。如果我們認(rèn)為自己行動(dòng)敏捷,喜歡刨根問(wèn)底,在實(shí)際的行動(dòng)上,我們就會(huì)傾向于冒險(xiǎn)(take more chances),更歡迎(be more open to)新的體驗(yàn)。如果我們自認(rèn)為天生怯懦并優(yōu)柔寡斷,我們就會(huì)遇事猶豫不前,行動(dòng)遲緩,只有感到安全可靠時(shí)才會(huì)挪動(dòng)一步。如果我們自認(rèn)為適應(yīng)變化很慢或不夠精明,無(wú)法對(duì)付新的挑戰(zhàn),那么,我們很可能做事被動(dòng)或干脆不做??梢?jiàn),我們的態(tài)度決定了我們的生活方式。
A意為:體驗(yàn)世界(即:生活)的新方式(或方法)。B意為:新的冒險(xiǎn)(take risk)方法。這有些片面。C意為:認(rèn)識(shí)自我的新方法。這是指態(tài)度方面,而不是指實(shí)際行為方面。D意為:適應(yīng)變化的新方法(system)。這也失之片面。
8. 【正確答案】[D]
意為:避免內(nèi)心的恐懼感與(自我)懷疑。在最后一段,作者指出,不安全感與自我懷疑不僅是無(wú)法避免的(unavoidable),而且是必要的,否則,我們就無(wú)法變化、發(fā)展。關(guān)鍵是要敢于面對(duì)(confront)并克服這種心理,如果我們一味地求安全,就不會(huì)有所長(zhǎng)進(jìn),就等于是作繭自縛(We become trapped inside a shell of our own making)。
A意為:對(duì)更多的冒險(xiǎn)(指:做新的事情)持好奇態(tài)度。即:總希望嘗試新的事情?! 意為:自我調(diào)節(jié)快。即:適應(yīng)新事物快。C意為:對(duì)新的體驗(yàn)持歡迎態(tài)度。對(duì)選擇項(xiàng)[A]、[C]、[D]的理解請(qǐng)參閱第7題題解。
全文翻譯:
人們對(duì)成長(zhǎng)有兩種基本看法:一是將其視作結(jié)果;一是將其視為過(guò)程。人們通常把個(gè)人成長(zhǎng)看做是易于識(shí)別和測(cè)量的外在結(jié)果。工人得到升遷,學(xué)生成績(jī)提高,外國(guó)人學(xué)會(huì)了一門新的語(yǔ)言——這些都可表明人們付出努力之后,取得了可衡量的成績(jī)。
相比之下,對(duì)成長(zhǎng)過(guò)程的測(cè)定就難多了,因?yàn)閺亩x上講,它是一次旅行,不是沿途上的某個(gè)路標(biāo)或界標(biāo)。成長(zhǎng)過(guò)程不是道路本身,而是當(dāng)遭遇新的情況或未曾預(yù)料的坎坷時(shí)所持的態(tài)度和情感,是慎重行事還是勇往直前。在這個(gè)過(guò)程中,旅行永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)真的結(jié)束;總會(huì)有新的方法去體驗(yàn)世界,新的思想去嘗試,新的挑戰(zhàn)去面對(duì)。
要想成長(zhǎng),要想探索新的道路,人們就得樂(lè)于冒險(xiǎn),樂(lè)于面對(duì)未知世界,并敢于接受初次嘗試便失敗的可能性。我們?cè)趪L試新的生存方式時(shí)如何看待自己對(duì)我們能力的培養(yǎng)是至關(guān)重要的。自以為行動(dòng)敏捷而又好奇嗎?如果這樣,我們就會(huì)去抓住更多機(jī)會(huì),更加勇于面對(duì)陌生的體驗(yàn)。自以為害羞而優(yōu)柔寡斷嗎?那么這種恐懼感便會(huì)使我們猶豫不決,行動(dòng)遲緩,而且在確保安全無(wú)虞后才前進(jìn)一步。自以為適應(yīng)變化的速度很慢,不夠精明,無(wú)法應(yīng)付新挑戰(zhàn)嗎?那么我們就可能采取消極姿態(tài),或根本不去嘗試。
如果我們要變化、要成長(zhǎng),那么這種不安全感、自我懷疑則是不可避免的,而且也是必要的。如果我們不能去正視并克服這些內(nèi)在的恐懼和疑慮,如果我們過(guò)于自我保護(hù),那么我們就會(huì)停止成長(zhǎng),陷進(jìn)自己營(yíng)造的殼里面。
There are two basic ways to see growth: one as a product, the other as a process. People have generally viewed personal growth as an external result or product that can easily be identified and measured. The worker who gets a promotion, the student whose grades improve, the foreigner who learns a new language-all these are examples of people who have measurable results to show for their efforts.
By contrast, the process of personal growth is much more difficult to determine, since by definition it is a journey and not the specific signposts or landmarks along the way. The process is not the road itself, but rather the attitudes and feelings people have, their caution or courge, as they encounter new experiences and unexpected obstacles. In this process ,the journey never really ends; there are always new ways to experience the world, new ideas to try, new challenges to accept .
In order to grow, to travel new roads, people need to have a willingness to take risks, to confront the unknown, and to accept the possibility that they may "fail" at first. How we see our-selves as we try a new way of being is essential to our ability to grow. Do we perceive ourselves as quick and curious? If so, then we tend to take more chances and to be more open to unfamiliar experiences. Do we think we're shy and indecisive? Then our sense of timidity can cause us to hesitate, to move slowly, and not to take a step until we know the ground is safe. Do we think we're slow to adapt to change or that we' re not smart enough to cope with a new challenge? Then we are likely to take a more passive role or not try at all.
These feelings of insecurity and self-doubt are both unavoidable and necessary if we are to change and grow. If we do not confront and overcome these internal fears and doubts, if we protect ourselves too much, then we cease to grow. We become trapped inside a shell of our own making .
5 . A person is generally believed to achieve personal growth then__.
(A)he has given up his smoking habit
(B)he has made great efforts in his work
(C)he is keen on learnning anything new
(D)he has tried to determine where he is on his journey
6. In the author' s eyes, one who views personal growth as a process would__.
(A)succeed in climbing up the social ladder
(B)judge his ability to glow from his own achievements
(C)face difficulties and take up challenges
(D)aim high and reach his goal each time
7. When the author says "a new way of being" (line 3, para. 3)he is referring to__.
(A)a new approach to experiencing the world
(B)a new way of taking risks
(C)a new method of perceiving ourselves
(D)a new system of adaptation to change
8. For personal growth ,the author advocates all of the following except_.
(A)curiosity about more chances
(B)promptness in self-adaptation
(C)open-mindedness to new experiences
(D)avoidance of internal fears and doubts
Unit 2(1995)Part 2
重點(diǎn)詞匯:
external(外部的),反義詞為internal(內(nèi)部的)。
signpost ?(路標(biāo))←sign+post。
landmark (界標(biāo))←land+mark。
obstacle(障礙)即ob+st+acle,ob-前綴“阻礙”,st詞根=stand,-acle后綴表物,“站在那里阻礙的東西”→障礙。
難句解析:
① The workers who gets a promotion, the student whose grades improve, the foreigner who learns a new language — all these are examples of people who have measurable results to show for there efforts.
本句破折號(hào)前面是三個(gè)并列的名詞詞組,其核心詞是the workers,the student和the foreigner,它們后面都有一個(gè)定語(yǔ)從句,而破折號(hào)后面的部分是一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的主系表結(jié)構(gòu)。
注意破折號(hào)前面的只是一些例子,在看不懂的情況下可以跳過(guò),當(dāng)然如果能夠精確理解它們的意思對(duì)理解作者把成長(zhǎng)視為一種過(guò)程也有幫助。
② The process is not the road itself, but rather the attitudes and feelings people have, their caution or courage, as they encounter new experiences and unexpected obstacles.
本句主干結(jié)構(gòu)就是not... but,注意but后面的成分較復(fù)雜,有四個(gè)并列的成分attitudes,feelings,caution,courage,在它們的后面有一個(gè)時(shí)間狀語(yǔ)從句。
注意抓not... but結(jié)構(gòu)中but后面的部分,這里是閱讀的重點(diǎn)。
③ In this process, the journey never really ends; there are always new ways to experience the world, new ideas to try, new challenges to accept.
可以用分號(hào)把句子一分為二,后面一半的表語(yǔ)比較復(fù)雜,有三個(gè)new的東西:new ways,new ideas,new challenges。
在此句和此句的上下文中,字面意思的理解可能不成問(wèn)題,但考生應(yīng)該真正理解作者在這里把人生的成長(zhǎng)視為一種過(guò)程而不是一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的結(jié)果這一事實(shí)。
④ In order to grow, to travel new roads, people need to have a willingness to take risks, to confront the unknown, and to accept the possibility that they may "fail" at first.
本句開始的兩個(gè)不定式是目的狀語(yǔ),主句結(jié)構(gòu)是people need to have a willingness to do sth.,后面又是三個(gè)并列的不定式。
在讀到這一句時(shí)我們就應(yīng)該對(duì)此文作者的文風(fēng)有一個(gè)大致把握,本文的作者比較喜歡使用排比結(jié)構(gòu)來(lái)使其論述顯得更加強(qiáng)有力。
⑤ If we do not confront and overcome these internal fears and doubts, if we protect ourselves too much, then we cease to grow. We become trapped inside a shell of our own making.
第一個(gè)句子以兩個(gè)if引導(dǎo)的條件從句開始,核心在then的后面,后面的句子中注意become后面的過(guò)去分詞作表語(yǔ)。
開始也是排比,比較容易理解,后半句里有一個(gè)比喻,shell指的是“自我封閉”,大家理解起來(lái)也沒(méi)有什么問(wèn)題。
試題解析:
5.【正確答案】[A]
第一段指出,人們對(duì)成長(zhǎng)有兩種基本看法:有人將之視為結(jié)果(product),有人將之視為一個(gè)過(guò)程(process)。一般來(lái)講,人傾向于將個(gè)人的成長(zhǎng)(或發(fā)展)看作是一個(gè)易于識(shí)別和測(cè)量的外在的結(jié)果,如:工人晉職,學(xué)生成績(jī)(grades)好,學(xué)會(huì)一門外語(yǔ)。這都是他們做出努力(efforts)之后所取得的可衡量的結(jié)果。
[A]表達(dá)的內(nèi)容原文雖未提到,但我們可以做一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的類推。一旦形成習(xí)慣,戒煙是很不易的,是需要決心與毅力的,正像一個(gè)學(xué)生要取得好成績(jī)必須做出努力一樣。B意為:他對(duì)工作盡了巨大的心力。但是,這里卻未提到盡心盡力后帶來(lái)什么樣的結(jié)果,也許是徒勞無(wú)益呢?C意為:他熱衷于學(xué)習(xí)新東西。be keen on意為:熱衷于,想要。與[B]一樣,這里也未提及結(jié)果:他是否學(xué)會(huì)新東西?D意為:他想看看(或確立一下)自己在發(fā)展的道路(journey)上走到哪兒了。這更沒(méi)道理了。
6.【正確答案】 [C]
意為:面對(duì)困難,接受挑戰(zhàn)。在第二段,作者指出,將發(fā)展看作是一個(gè)過(guò)程的人關(guān)心的不是結(jié)果,他們更多地是注重人面對(duì)新的體驗(yàn)(experiences)與不期而至的障礙時(shí)所表現(xiàn)出的態(tài)度與感受:是謹(jǐn)慎還是表示出勇氣。發(fā)展永無(wú)止境,對(duì)外部世界的體驗(yàn)不止一種,總是有新的思路需要檢驗(yàn),新的挑戰(zhàn)(challenges)去接受。另請(qǐng)參閱第三段第一句。
A意為:成功地爬上了社會(huì)階梯(即:成功地進(jìn)入社會(huì)上層)。這是一個(gè)結(jié)果,而不是一個(gè)過(guò)程,因此,是不正確的,而且,原文并未提到這一點(diǎn)。B意為:從他自己的成就來(lái)判斷其發(fā)展(潛)力。這顯然是從結(jié)果的角度來(lái)看待人的發(fā)展。D意為:確立高的(發(fā)展)目標(biāo)(aim high),而且每次都實(shí)現(xiàn)自己的目標(biāo)。原文并未提及“目標(biāo)”的確立,而且該選擇項(xiàng)的后半部分(reach his goal each time)顯然又是在談結(jié)果。
7.【正確答案】[A]
在該句中,being在此意為:生存,存在,第三段第二句指出,當(dāng)我們用新的方式生存(或體驗(yàn)世界)時(shí),我們對(duì)自己的看法對(duì)我們能否發(fā)展至關(guān)重要。下文舉了幾個(gè)例子來(lái)闡述這一觀點(diǎn)。如果我們認(rèn)為自己行動(dòng)敏捷,喜歡刨根問(wèn)底,在實(shí)際的行動(dòng)上,我們就會(huì)傾向于冒險(xiǎn)(take more chances),更歡迎(be more open to)新的體驗(yàn)。如果我們自認(rèn)為天生怯懦并優(yōu)柔寡斷,我們就會(huì)遇事猶豫不前,行動(dòng)遲緩,只有感到安全可靠時(shí)才會(huì)挪動(dòng)一步。如果我們自認(rèn)為適應(yīng)變化很慢或不夠精明,無(wú)法對(duì)付新的挑戰(zhàn),那么,我們很可能做事被動(dòng)或干脆不做??梢?jiàn),我們的態(tài)度決定了我們的生活方式。
A意為:體驗(yàn)世界(即:生活)的新方式(或方法)。B意為:新的冒險(xiǎn)(take risk)方法。這有些片面。C意為:認(rèn)識(shí)自我的新方法。這是指態(tài)度方面,而不是指實(shí)際行為方面。D意為:適應(yīng)變化的新方法(system)。這也失之片面。
8. 【正確答案】[D]
意為:避免內(nèi)心的恐懼感與(自我)懷疑。在最后一段,作者指出,不安全感與自我懷疑不僅是無(wú)法避免的(unavoidable),而且是必要的,否則,我們就無(wú)法變化、發(fā)展。關(guān)鍵是要敢于面對(duì)(confront)并克服這種心理,如果我們一味地求安全,就不會(huì)有所長(zhǎng)進(jìn),就等于是作繭自縛(We become trapped inside a shell of our own making)。
A意為:對(duì)更多的冒險(xiǎn)(指:做新的事情)持好奇態(tài)度。即:總希望嘗試新的事情?! 意為:自我調(diào)節(jié)快。即:適應(yīng)新事物快。C意為:對(duì)新的體驗(yàn)持歡迎態(tài)度。對(duì)選擇項(xiàng)[A]、[C]、[D]的理解請(qǐng)參閱第7題題解。
全文翻譯:
人們對(duì)成長(zhǎng)有兩種基本看法:一是將其視作結(jié)果;一是將其視為過(guò)程。人們通常把個(gè)人成長(zhǎng)看做是易于識(shí)別和測(cè)量的外在結(jié)果。工人得到升遷,學(xué)生成績(jī)提高,外國(guó)人學(xué)會(huì)了一門新的語(yǔ)言——這些都可表明人們付出努力之后,取得了可衡量的成績(jī)。
相比之下,對(duì)成長(zhǎng)過(guò)程的測(cè)定就難多了,因?yàn)閺亩x上講,它是一次旅行,不是沿途上的某個(gè)路標(biāo)或界標(biāo)。成長(zhǎng)過(guò)程不是道路本身,而是當(dāng)遭遇新的情況或未曾預(yù)料的坎坷時(shí)所持的態(tài)度和情感,是慎重行事還是勇往直前。在這個(gè)過(guò)程中,旅行永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)真的結(jié)束;總會(huì)有新的方法去體驗(yàn)世界,新的思想去嘗試,新的挑戰(zhàn)去面對(duì)。
要想成長(zhǎng),要想探索新的道路,人們就得樂(lè)于冒險(xiǎn),樂(lè)于面對(duì)未知世界,并敢于接受初次嘗試便失敗的可能性。我們?cè)趪L試新的生存方式時(shí)如何看待自己對(duì)我們能力的培養(yǎng)是至關(guān)重要的。自以為行動(dòng)敏捷而又好奇嗎?如果這樣,我們就會(huì)去抓住更多機(jī)會(huì),更加勇于面對(duì)陌生的體驗(yàn)。自以為害羞而優(yōu)柔寡斷嗎?那么這種恐懼感便會(huì)使我們猶豫不決,行動(dòng)遲緩,而且在確保安全無(wú)虞后才前進(jìn)一步。自以為適應(yīng)變化的速度很慢,不夠精明,無(wú)法應(yīng)付新挑戰(zhàn)嗎?那么我們就可能采取消極姿態(tài),或根本不去嘗試。
如果我們要變化、要成長(zhǎng),那么這種不安全感、自我懷疑則是不可避免的,而且也是必要的。如果我們不能去正視并克服這些內(nèi)在的恐懼和疑慮,如果我們過(guò)于自我保護(hù),那么我們就會(huì)停止成長(zhǎng),陷進(jìn)自己營(yíng)造的殼里面。

