The feeling of love, always feel very sweet, always feel more than one person to help you share, you are not alone, at least one person thinking of you, love you, no matter what you do, as long as you can, but slowly, with each other's shortcomings, you start to find the other side, and you start trouble, tired and even want to escape, some people say love is like picking up a stone, but you know when to pick it up? She is right for you, and you are right for her? In fact, love is like grinding stones, perhaps just picked up, you are not so satisfied, but remember that people are flexible, a lot of things can be changed, as long as you have the courage to pick up the unknown stone, rather than good to have their own stone grinding bright polished, you begin to wear it?
This is I have heard people say: a couple, meet after work to dinner, shopping, but the girl because the company delayed the meeting and, when she braved the rain arrived already late more than 30 minutes, her boyfriend is very unhappy, said: this happens all the time, now I did not mind, I later again will not be able to wait for the. The girl finally, breaching of the dike collapse, she thought: perhaps, they had no future! The same in the same place, another pair of lovers is also facing the same situation; girls arrived late for half an hour, and his boyfriend, said: I want to have a busy day! Then he girls wiped the face of rain, and take off his coat to cover on the girl body, this moment, the girl shed tears! But the tears that flowed over her cheeks were warm, you realized? In fact, love, hate is often only one in our study between! Love to know how tolerant a lot of things may be just a change in your mood! Do you understand?
When someone falls in love with you, and you think he's good. That doesn't mean you will choose him. You say: you want to find a person you love very much, you will fall in love. But when the other person asks you: how to be very love very love, but you can not answer him, because you do not know. Yes, we always thought, we will find a person who loves very much.
But later, when we suddenly look back, we will find that they have been naive. If you never start, how do you know that you will not love that person? In fact, love is a feeling of love, is to experience a lot of things will be found after.
Some day a friend asked me: in the end how to do is love a person? I smiled and he said: in fact, each person's view of love are not the same, said that enlightens, but was afraid that wrong actually become a misleading it bad the!
If you are also at a loss, perhaps the following words can give you some inspiration: love a person! To understand, also want to kaixie; to apologize, but also to express thanks; to admit his fault, but also error; to be considerate, but also understanding; is to accept, not endure; tolerance, and not condoned; is to support, not dominate; is sympathy, not questioned; is to talk, and not complain, it is memorable, but not forgotten; is the mutual exchange, rather than explain everything; silently praying for each other, rather than to many other demands can be romantic, but don't waste; can at any time by hand, but do not break up easily...
If you do, even if you love a person, and only miss, but will not grudge.
Do you know how to love? Try it!
"You love someone let, it be and set him If / free her, he if / comes back to you she, meant to be. it's"
If you love someone, let it be and set him / her free, if he / she comes back to you, it's meant to be.
愛(ài)的感覺(jué),總是在一開(kāi)始覺(jué)得很甜蜜,總覺(jué)得多一個(gè)人陪,多一個(gè)人幫你分擔(dān),你終于不再孤單了,至少有一個(gè)人想著你、戀著你,不論做什么事情,只要能在一起,就是好的,但是慢慢的,隨著彼此的認(rèn)識(shí)愈深,你開(kāi)始發(fā)現(xiàn)了對(duì)方的缺點(diǎn),于是問(wèn)題一個(gè)接著一個(gè)發(fā)生,你開(kāi)始煩、累甚至想要逃避,有人說(shuō)愛(ài)情就像在撿石頭,總想撿到一個(gè)適合自己的,但是你又如何知道什么時(shí)候能夠撿到呢?她適合你,那你又適合她嗎?其實(shí),愛(ài)情就像磨石子一樣,或許剛撿到的時(shí)候,你不是那么的滿意,但是記住人是有彈性的,很多事情是可以改變的,只要你有心、有勇氣,與其到處去撿未知的石頭,還不如好好的將自己已經(jīng)擁有的石頭磨亮磨光,你開(kāi)始磨了嗎?
這是我聽(tīng)人家說(shuō)的:有一對(duì)情侶,相約下班后去用餐、逛街,可是女孩因?yàn)楣緯?huì)議而延誤了,當(dāng)她冒著雨趕到的時(shí)候已經(jīng)遲到了30多分鐘,他的男朋友很不高興的說(shuō):每次都這樣,現(xiàn)在我什么心情也沒(méi)了,我以后再也不會(huì)等了。那間,女孩終于決堤崩潰,她心里想:或許,他們?cè)僖矝](méi)有未來(lái)了!同樣的在同一個(gè)地點(diǎn),另一對(duì)情侶也面臨同樣的處境;女孩趕到的時(shí)候也遲到了半個(gè)鐘頭,他的男朋友說(shuō):我想一定忙壞了吧!接著他為女孩拭去臉上的雨水,并且脫去外套蓋在女孩身上,此刻,女孩流淚了!但是流過(guò)她臉頰的淚卻是溫馨的,你體會(huì)到了嗎?其實(shí)愛(ài)、恨往往只是在我們的一念之間!愛(ài)要懂得寬容很多事可能只是在于你心境的轉(zhuǎn)變罷了!你懂了嗎?
當(dāng)有個(gè)人愛(ài)上你,而你也覺(jué)得他不錯(cuò)。那并不代表你會(huì)選擇他。你說(shuō):你要找一個(gè)你很愛(ài)很愛(ài)的人,你才會(huì)談戀愛(ài)。但是當(dāng)對(duì)方問(wèn)你:怎樣才算是很愛(ài)很愛(ài)的時(shí)候,你卻無(wú)法回答他,因?yàn)槟阕约阂膊恢馈](méi)錯(cuò),我們總是以為,我們會(huì)找到一個(gè)自己很愛(ài)很愛(ài)的人。
可是后來(lái),當(dāng)我們猛然回首,我們才會(huì)發(fā)覺(jué)自己曾經(jīng)多么天真。假如從來(lái)沒(méi)有開(kāi)始,你怎么知道自己會(huì)不會(huì)很愛(ài)很愛(ài)那個(gè)人呢?其實(shí),很愛(ài)很愛(ài)的感覺(jué),是要在一起經(jīng)歷了許多事情之后才會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)的。
某年某月某天某個(gè)朋友問(wèn)我:到底該怎么做才算是愛(ài)一個(gè)人呢?我笑著跟他說(shuō):其實(shí)每個(gè)人的愛(ài)情觀都不一樣,說(shuō)對(duì)了叫開(kāi)導(dǎo),但就怕說(shuō)錯(cuò)反倒變成誤導(dǎo)那就糟糕了!
如果你也正在為愛(ài)迷惘,或許下面這段話可以給你一些啟示:愛(ài)一個(gè)人!要了解,也要開(kāi)解;要道歉,也要道謝;要認(rèn)錯(cuò),也要改錯(cuò);要體貼,也要體諒;是接受,而不是忍受;是寬容,而不是縱容;是支持,而不是支配;是慰問(wèn),而不是質(zhì)問(wèn);是傾訴,而不是控訴;是難忘,而不是遺忘;是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代;是為對(duì)方默默祈求,而不是向?qū)Ψ街T多要求;可以浪漫,但不要浪費(fèi);可以隨時(shí)牽手,但不要隨便分手……
如果你都做到了,即使你不再愛(ài)一個(gè)人,也只有懷念,而不會(huì)懷恨。
你懂得如何去愛(ài)了嗎?試試看吧!
“If you love someone,let it be and set him/her free,if he/she comes back to you,it's meant to be.”
如果你愛(ài)一個(gè)人,隨遇而安,讓他/她自由的飛,如果最后他/她還是回到你身邊,那就是命中注定的。
This is I have heard people say: a couple, meet after work to dinner, shopping, but the girl because the company delayed the meeting and, when she braved the rain arrived already late more than 30 minutes, her boyfriend is very unhappy, said: this happens all the time, now I did not mind, I later again will not be able to wait for the. The girl finally, breaching of the dike collapse, she thought: perhaps, they had no future! The same in the same place, another pair of lovers is also facing the same situation; girls arrived late for half an hour, and his boyfriend, said: I want to have a busy day! Then he girls wiped the face of rain, and take off his coat to cover on the girl body, this moment, the girl shed tears! But the tears that flowed over her cheeks were warm, you realized? In fact, love, hate is often only one in our study between! Love to know how tolerant a lot of things may be just a change in your mood! Do you understand?
When someone falls in love with you, and you think he's good. That doesn't mean you will choose him. You say: you want to find a person you love very much, you will fall in love. But when the other person asks you: how to be very love very love, but you can not answer him, because you do not know. Yes, we always thought, we will find a person who loves very much.
But later, when we suddenly look back, we will find that they have been naive. If you never start, how do you know that you will not love that person? In fact, love is a feeling of love, is to experience a lot of things will be found after.
Some day a friend asked me: in the end how to do is love a person? I smiled and he said: in fact, each person's view of love are not the same, said that enlightens, but was afraid that wrong actually become a misleading it bad the!
If you are also at a loss, perhaps the following words can give you some inspiration: love a person! To understand, also want to kaixie; to apologize, but also to express thanks; to admit his fault, but also error; to be considerate, but also understanding; is to accept, not endure; tolerance, and not condoned; is to support, not dominate; is sympathy, not questioned; is to talk, and not complain, it is memorable, but not forgotten; is the mutual exchange, rather than explain everything; silently praying for each other, rather than to many other demands can be romantic, but don't waste; can at any time by hand, but do not break up easily...
If you do, even if you love a person, and only miss, but will not grudge.
Do you know how to love? Try it!
"You love someone let, it be and set him If / free her, he if / comes back to you she, meant to be. it's"
If you love someone, let it be and set him / her free, if he / she comes back to you, it's meant to be.
愛(ài)的感覺(jué),總是在一開(kāi)始覺(jué)得很甜蜜,總覺(jué)得多一個(gè)人陪,多一個(gè)人幫你分擔(dān),你終于不再孤單了,至少有一個(gè)人想著你、戀著你,不論做什么事情,只要能在一起,就是好的,但是慢慢的,隨著彼此的認(rèn)識(shí)愈深,你開(kāi)始發(fā)現(xiàn)了對(duì)方的缺點(diǎn),于是問(wèn)題一個(gè)接著一個(gè)發(fā)生,你開(kāi)始煩、累甚至想要逃避,有人說(shuō)愛(ài)情就像在撿石頭,總想撿到一個(gè)適合自己的,但是你又如何知道什么時(shí)候能夠撿到呢?她適合你,那你又適合她嗎?其實(shí),愛(ài)情就像磨石子一樣,或許剛撿到的時(shí)候,你不是那么的滿意,但是記住人是有彈性的,很多事情是可以改變的,只要你有心、有勇氣,與其到處去撿未知的石頭,還不如好好的將自己已經(jīng)擁有的石頭磨亮磨光,你開(kāi)始磨了嗎?
這是我聽(tīng)人家說(shuō)的:有一對(duì)情侶,相約下班后去用餐、逛街,可是女孩因?yàn)楣緯?huì)議而延誤了,當(dāng)她冒著雨趕到的時(shí)候已經(jīng)遲到了30多分鐘,他的男朋友很不高興的說(shuō):每次都這樣,現(xiàn)在我什么心情也沒(méi)了,我以后再也不會(huì)等了。那間,女孩終于決堤崩潰,她心里想:或許,他們?cè)僖矝](méi)有未來(lái)了!同樣的在同一個(gè)地點(diǎn),另一對(duì)情侶也面臨同樣的處境;女孩趕到的時(shí)候也遲到了半個(gè)鐘頭,他的男朋友說(shuō):我想一定忙壞了吧!接著他為女孩拭去臉上的雨水,并且脫去外套蓋在女孩身上,此刻,女孩流淚了!但是流過(guò)她臉頰的淚卻是溫馨的,你體會(huì)到了嗎?其實(shí)愛(ài)、恨往往只是在我們的一念之間!愛(ài)要懂得寬容很多事可能只是在于你心境的轉(zhuǎn)變罷了!你懂了嗎?
當(dāng)有個(gè)人愛(ài)上你,而你也覺(jué)得他不錯(cuò)。那并不代表你會(huì)選擇他。你說(shuō):你要找一個(gè)你很愛(ài)很愛(ài)的人,你才會(huì)談戀愛(ài)。但是當(dāng)對(duì)方問(wèn)你:怎樣才算是很愛(ài)很愛(ài)的時(shí)候,你卻無(wú)法回答他,因?yàn)槟阕约阂膊恢馈](méi)錯(cuò),我們總是以為,我們會(huì)找到一個(gè)自己很愛(ài)很愛(ài)的人。
可是后來(lái),當(dāng)我們猛然回首,我們才會(huì)發(fā)覺(jué)自己曾經(jīng)多么天真。假如從來(lái)沒(méi)有開(kāi)始,你怎么知道自己會(huì)不會(huì)很愛(ài)很愛(ài)那個(gè)人呢?其實(shí),很愛(ài)很愛(ài)的感覺(jué),是要在一起經(jīng)歷了許多事情之后才會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)的。
某年某月某天某個(gè)朋友問(wèn)我:到底該怎么做才算是愛(ài)一個(gè)人呢?我笑著跟他說(shuō):其實(shí)每個(gè)人的愛(ài)情觀都不一樣,說(shuō)對(duì)了叫開(kāi)導(dǎo),但就怕說(shuō)錯(cuò)反倒變成誤導(dǎo)那就糟糕了!
如果你也正在為愛(ài)迷惘,或許下面這段話可以給你一些啟示:愛(ài)一個(gè)人!要了解,也要開(kāi)解;要道歉,也要道謝;要認(rèn)錯(cuò),也要改錯(cuò);要體貼,也要體諒;是接受,而不是忍受;是寬容,而不是縱容;是支持,而不是支配;是慰問(wèn),而不是質(zhì)問(wèn);是傾訴,而不是控訴;是難忘,而不是遺忘;是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代;是為對(duì)方默默祈求,而不是向?qū)Ψ街T多要求;可以浪漫,但不要浪費(fèi);可以隨時(shí)牽手,但不要隨便分手……
如果你都做到了,即使你不再愛(ài)一個(gè)人,也只有懷念,而不會(huì)懷恨。
你懂得如何去愛(ài)了嗎?試試看吧!
“If you love someone,let it be and set him/her free,if he/she comes back to you,it's meant to be.”
如果你愛(ài)一個(gè)人,隨遇而安,讓他/她自由的飛,如果最后他/她還是回到你身邊,那就是命中注定的。