making friends is a skill like many other skills. it improves with practice. if you want to meet people and make friends, you must be willing to take some actions. you must first go where there are people. you won’t make friends staying home alone. join a club or a group. taking with those who like the same things as you do is much easier. or join someone in some activities. many people are nervous when talking to new people. after all meeting strangers means facing the unknown. and it’s human nature to feel a bit uncomfortable about the unknown. most of our fears about dealing with new people come from doubts about ourselves. we imagine other people are judging us of finding us too tall or to short, too this or too that. but don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way. try to accept yourself as you are and try to put the other person at ease. you’ll both feel more comfortable.
try to be self-comfident even if you don’t feel that way. when you enter a room full of strangers, such as a new classroom, walk tall and straight, look directly at other people and smile.
if you see someone you like to speak to, say something . don’t wait for the other person to start a conversation.
just meeting someone new does not mean that you will make friends with that person-friendship is based on mutual liking and “give and take”. it takes time and effort to develop.
交友是一種技能，像許多其他技能一樣。實(shí)踐提高。如果你想結(jié)交朋友，你必須愿意采取一些行動(dòng)。你必須先去那里的人。你不會(huì)讓朋友一個(gè)人呆在家里。加入俱樂部或團(tuán)體。和那些喜歡和你一樣的人做的事情更容易。或加入某人的一些活動(dòng)。許多人在和新的人交談時(shí)感到緊張。畢竟遇見陌生人意味著面對(duì)未知。這是人性的感覺有點(diǎn)不舒服的未知。我們最害怕和新的人打交道是來自于對(duì)自己的懷疑。我們想象其他人都在評(píng)判我們發(fā)現(xiàn)我們太高或太短，太多或太多。但別忘了，他們必須有相同的感覺。試著接受自己，試著讓對(duì)方放心。你會(huì)覺得更舒服。 要自信即使你不這樣覺得。當(dāng)你進(jìn)入一個(gè)充滿了陌生人的房間，如一個(gè)新的教室，走高直，直視別人和微笑。 如果你看到某個(gè)你喜歡說話的人，說點(diǎn)什么。不要等待另一個(gè)人開始一段對(duì)話。 只是遇到一個(gè)新的人并不意味著你會(huì)和那個(gè)人的友誼建立在相互的喜愛和“給予”的基礎(chǔ)上。發(fā)展的需要花費(fèi)時(shí)間和精力。
try to be self-comfident even if you don’t feel that way. when you enter a room full of strangers, such as a new classroom, walk tall and straight, look directly at other people and smile.
if you see someone you like to speak to, say something . don’t wait for the other person to start a conversation.
just meeting someone new does not mean that you will make friends with that person-friendship is based on mutual liking and “give and take”. it takes time and effort to develop.
交友是一種技能，像許多其他技能一樣。實(shí)踐提高。如果你想結(jié)交朋友，你必須愿意采取一些行動(dòng)。你必須先去那里的人。你不會(huì)讓朋友一個(gè)人呆在家里。加入俱樂部或團(tuán)體。和那些喜歡和你一樣的人做的事情更容易。或加入某人的一些活動(dòng)。許多人在和新的人交談時(shí)感到緊張。畢竟遇見陌生人意味著面對(duì)未知。這是人性的感覺有點(diǎn)不舒服的未知。我們最害怕和新的人打交道是來自于對(duì)自己的懷疑。我們想象其他人都在評(píng)判我們發(fā)現(xiàn)我們太高或太短，太多或太多。但別忘了，他們必須有相同的感覺。試著接受自己，試著讓對(duì)方放心。你會(huì)覺得更舒服。 要自信即使你不這樣覺得。當(dāng)你進(jìn)入一個(gè)充滿了陌生人的房間，如一個(gè)新的教室，走高直，直視別人和微笑。 如果你看到某個(gè)你喜歡說話的人，說點(diǎn)什么。不要等待另一個(gè)人開始一段對(duì)話。 只是遇到一個(gè)新的人并不意味著你會(huì)和那個(gè)人的友誼建立在相互的喜愛和“給予”的基礎(chǔ)上。發(fā)展的需要花費(fèi)時(shí)間和精力。