On the contrary， however， over social identification leads to an assimilation in the whole society， which is in a sense harmful to social development and will probably prevent people from making clear some personalities hiding deeply in one’s spiritual world， which is of equal importance in people‘s self-identification as sociality. Not all teachers are supposed to be kind and affable， some students need a stricter one. Not all employees are supposed to be precise and conservative， some employers prefer a more energetic and adventurous one. The attempt to form people in the same shape was proved a big error and a destructive calamity to the society both in pre-U.S.S.R.under the Stalin’s administration and in China in 1970‘s. To sum up， as mentioned in the famous movie “Legend of the fall”， no one can refuse to listen to the voice from his or her own heart， the self-identification without individuality is not an integrated one.
Without social identification， one can not find the origin from which his sense of value，social norms and life plan was drawn， without looking for some inborn characteristics within oneself， one will miss the important part which different him（her）self from others in the society. So while self-definition necessitates sociality， individuality is equally important. Only can a perfect combination of these two aspects lead to a correct definition of human being.