口語:群聊時的插話技巧

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    課堂討論時,公司開會brainstorming時,同學聚會爭論某個問題時,都需要我們適時表達自己的意見。怎么樣表達才能讓別人聽到并注意到呢?今天,我們就來說一說表達意見的不同方式。
    1. 表達自己意見
    I think that... 我認為... (簡單的表達,也直接)
    It seems to me that... 在我看來... (可以用作表達意見,或者總結或者認可對方說的話)
    I would argue that...我是這么看的... (這里面用would來弱化語氣)
    Just to go along with what you said... 順著你剛才說的,... (這句話,真的很好用,承上啟下。這句話還好在,它使你現(xiàn)在插話看上去很合理,因為你是為了順著前面的那個人繼續(xù)說)
    Going back to what xxx said... 回到剛才XXX說的,... (同上。不過一般是你已經(jīng)說了幾句,此事,想要與別人剛剛提到過或者蜻蜓點水說的的東西扯上點關系。這句話的好處就是,一能讓別人看到我的說法和你是有一致之處的, 二能表現(xiàn)他剛才說的東西你還有印象)
    2. 同意或者反對
    I agree with you. 我同意你說的。(簡單的)
    Building on what XX has just said, ....就剛才XXX說的,...
    I am with you..., but [main point]. 我明白你的意思,不過... (這里I am with you不一定表示同意也不一定表示反對,它主要的意思是說"你說的我聽懂了/我跟上你說的了)
    I follow your logic, but have you thought about/considered this... [main point]...? 你說的我明白了,但是你有沒有想過...(和上面一句話的邏輯是一樣的)
    I see what you are saying, but I'm not sure I would argue that... 我明白你的意思,不過我不確定我的觀點與你一致... (和上面兩句話的邏輯一樣)
    With all due respect, I think... 恕我直言,我認為...
    3. 謙虛的反對
    Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't [a different topic]...? 如果我說錯了,請你們指正,不過是不是...?
    I'm not an expert on..., it seems to me that... 我在這方面是外行,在我看來...
    I might be wrong, but ... 可能我理解錯了,不過...
    I suspect that I lack some information about this aspect, but here is my two cents. 可能我對這方面的信息了解不夠充分,我的看法是...
    I am not sure about this..., you might want to check with Professor X... Would you mind letting me know what he/she says? 這個我不太確定,或許你可以找XX教授確認一下。到時候麻煩你告訴我一下他是怎么說的,可以嗎?
    This is one way to look at it. Another way to look at it might be.... 你這是一種看法,我另外還有一種看法是...(這句話通常在別人說了一堆之后,為了引出自己的觀點時使用)
    4. 疑惑追問
    Just to clarify,... 我想確認一下...
    May I ask a follow-up question? 我能就你說的問個問題嗎?
    Could you say more (about it)? 你能多解釋一下嗎?
    Could you elaborate on this? 你能詳細解釋一下嗎?
    上述的句子都是在聽了別人的看法之后,不確定自己是否理解正確,所以追問,讓別人詳細解釋一下。
    5. 會議報告、演講之后提問
    That's an amazing model/useful concept, but it occurred to me that [this/something] might also play a role....Have you considered ...?
    Thanks for your talk. I completely agree with your conclusion, but as I'm sure you're aware, Dr. XX explains this in a different way, and I was wondering if you could address her theory.
    這種提問的開場白多是肯定之前報告和演講的意義,然后再提出自己的問題。
     "but as I'm sure you're aware"完全是給對方一個臺階下,可能那個理論他根本沒有考慮過。但是如果對方是比較資深的,我們也需要客套一下。
    6. 尋求幫助
    I was wondering if I could talk to you about...
    I was hoping that if I could talk to you about...
    I was wondering if it'd be possible that you...
    上述句子均表示:不知我是否可用跟您請教.../您可否...
    這種句式一般都是用過去時,在email里面也是如此。而且,雖然was wondering/hoping這種進行時看起來很怪,但是用法就是這樣子的
    Sorry to bother you, Professor X.... XX教授,抱歉打擾您。
    I realize this is an unusual request... 我知道這樣的要求有些不合常理。
    I realize that you are very busy... 我知道您很忙。
    Thanks for your time.謝謝您抽出寶貴時間。
    Thanks in advance for your help.先謝謝您的幫助
    It would be great if you could... 如果您能夠...那就太好了。(這個是常用的,尤其是email里面)